Frequently Asked Questions
( FAQs)

What is Manners & Moves?

Manners & Moves is a fun, modern etiquette and social confidence program for children. Through interactive lessons, games, and team-building activities, children learn polite manners, dining etiquette, conversation techniques, and dance while developing the confidence and social skills they need to succeed in everyday life.  Respect for others is the driving force of Manners & Moves.

 

How is Manners & Moves different from a traditional cotillion program?

Traditional cotillion programs focus primarily on etiquette instruction,  manners, and formal dance. Manners & Moves builds upon many of the positive conventions of cotillion while creating a modern, interactive, and engaging experience for today's children.

Our program combines timeless etiquette lessons with interactive games, team-building activities, role-playing, confidence-building exercises, dining experiences, and social dance. We honor the traditions of cotillion while focusing on the real-world social skills children need today. Our goal is not only to teach proper manners but also to help children become comfortable, confident, and successful in social situations.

 

Who is Manners & Moves designed for?

Manners & Moves is designed for children who want to build confidence, improve social skills, learn proper etiquette, and make new friends in a positive and engaging environment.

 

Why are etiquette skills important today?

Good manners help children feel confident, show respect for others, communicate effectively, and build positive relationships. Etiquette is about more than rules—it is about helping children navigate social situations with kindness, confidence, and consideration for others.

 

What will my child learn?

Children learn a variety of life skills, including:

• Respect and courtesy

• Confidence in social situations

• Table manners and dining etiquette

• Teamwork and leadership

• Introduction and conversation skills

• How to write proper thank-you notes

• Social dance and partner etiquette

• Digital etiquette and responsible communication

 

Is Manners & Moves only about table manners?

No. While dining etiquette is an important part of the program, Manners & Moves focuses on the whole child and a variety of social situations.

 

Does my child need dance experience?

No prior dance experience is required. Our social dance activities are designed for beginners and focus on confidence, courtesy, cooperation, and having fun rather than dance technique.

 

Why do you include social dance?

Social dance helps children develop confidence, poise, coordination, and social awareness. It also provides opportunities to practice introductions, conversation skills, respect, and positive interaction with others in a structured environment.

 

How does Manners & Moves help build confidence?

Children gain confidence by practicing real-life social skills in a supportive setting. Through role-playing, conversation exercises, team activities, dining experiences, social dance, and interactive games, participants become more comfortable interacting with peers and adults.

 

Will my child make new friends?

Absolutely. One of the most rewarding aspects of Manners & Moves is the opportunity to meet children from different schools and backgrounds. Our activities encourage participants to form new friendships and expand their social circles.

 

What is Manners Jeopardy?

Manners Jeopardy is one of our favorite interactive activities. Children work in teams to answer etiquette and social skills questions while practicing communication, teamwork, problem-solving, and confidence in a fun and engaging format.

 

Why is teamwork part of the program?

Teamwork teaches children how to communicate effectively, listen to others, solve problems collaboratively, and support their peers. Through group activities and games, participants learn valuable leadership and cooperation skills that benefit them in school, sports, and future careers.

 

What age groups do you serve?

Manners & Moves programs are designed for elementary- and middle-school-aged children. Specific age ranges may vary by session, allowing activities and instruction to be tailored appropriately for each group.

 

Do you offer private lessons?

Yes. We offer private and small-group sessions that can be customized to meet the specific goals of the children participating. Private lessons are ideal for families seeking personalized instruction or focused practice in areas such as dining etiquette, social confidence, introductions, conversation skills, or special event preparation.

 

What should my child wear?

We encourage children to dress neatly and comfortably. Specific attire recommendations may be provided for special events, dining experiences, tea parties, or final celebrations.

 

General Attire

• Nice, neat clothing appropriate for a special event

• Collared shirts, blouses, sweaters, skirts, dresses, khakis, or dress pants

• Comfortable shoes suitable for dancing (no sneakers)

• No jeans

• No sweats or athletic wear

• No T-shirts, tank tops, or graphic tops

 

How are parents involved?

Parents may receive updates, resources, and opportunities to participate in select activities or celebrations. We believe that reinforcing etiquette and social skills at home helps children retain and apply what they learn.

 

How do I register for Manners & Moves?

Visit our registration page or contact us directly for upcoming class dates, private lesson availability, and program details. We look forward to welcoming your child to the Manners & Moves community!

 

Still Have Questions?

We would love to hear from you! Contact us to learn more about our programs, private lessons, and upcoming Manners & Moves sessions. We are happy to help you find the best fit for your child and family.